Forest wreathed in fog

Dust

One of a few short stories based in a world I’m currently building. Tay clung to the tree, peering around…

Creepy forest from ground level

Titans

One of a few short stories based in a world I’m currently building. Elka held little Aldin tight against their…

Creepy woods

Liars

One of a few short stories based in a world I’m currently building. “You think it’s me, Anya? How could…

Accountability

Content Notice – emotional abuse, including some relating to sexual activity; ableism; gaslighting; alcoholism; mention of physical violence. Context and…

Who am I?

I am The Bobbu. I was named something else by my parents. Like many things placed upon me over my…

Stop Saying Feminism is Good for Men

I’ve been seeing a lot of posts recently along the lines of “feminism helps men too.” That makes me sad….

I Have Regrets (and that’s ok)

“Live with no regrets,” the saying goes. It is a very silly saying, in my not-so-humble opinion. You see, I…

Challenging Challenges (part 2)

Take a deep breath, and let’s make the dive into debating territory. What other arguments are there that I hear…

My Granddad

My granddad passed away recently. He was one of the few people in my family who I liked and respected…

Sex Education in a Time Warp

Originally published in The Skinny Sometimes I get up in the morning, read the news, and wonder which century I…

Challenging Challenges (part 1)

We polyamorous and other ethically non-monogamous folks are used to being criticised, challenged and questioned about our love styles. It’s…

Eating Out

When people think about food and sex, they tend to go down limited avenues of thought. There’s Aphrodisiac Avenue, where…

Heroes My Arse

I have noticed a plague sprouting up on social networking sites. You’ll have seen it if you’re on Facebook, G+…

Bah, humbuggery

You know what I hate most about the empty, souless celebration of boosting flagging mid-winter profit margins on ugly, ill-fitting…

Go Forth and Fuck Yourself

Everybody does it. Me, you, your parents – even your grandparents did it, but probably with more guilt. That’s right,…

I Am Not A Naughty Boy

“You’ve been a naughty girl” “I’m such a bad boy” “I want to do terrible things to you” Anyone who’s…

Skirting the Issue

We are moving inexorably towards gender equality, but there are many things still to change before we reach the distant…

So, What Is This Polyamory Thing?

I think my girlfriend is absolutely amazing. That comes as no surprise to anybody. What does surprise some folks is…